Here is your other thread http://www.expertlaw.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11536Quoting virginia_princess21
Noe for your answers.
Go to the Family Law Facilitator's office in the county where you filed your Summary Dissolusion and ask for assistance in obtaining a divorce since your incarcerated husband at the last minute recinded his consent to the divorce, you may be able to get the final decree even back dated to the original date it should have been final via a process known as nunc pro tunc. THis will require an additional declaration. Please note that if you had any Conjugal visits, that could further complicate things.
Depending on when your divorce is final, will determine how and what you can do re establishing paternity. If you have had any Conjugal visits and there is a possibility this is the child of your husband then both putative fathers will have to have DNA testing. Remember, a child born of the marriage or within 300 days of it is presumed to be the child of the marriage and you as the mother, have 2 years from the birth of the child to petition the court to establish paternity other than your husband, you can also file a paternity case against the putative father at the same time you follow through with your divorce and the court will order the dna test after the baby is born, unless there is a reason to do amnio before, then at least you have the case filed and it also establishes the earliest possible date for child support. The same would hold true if you apply for state aid of any sort.
Since he is deployed he can envoke the SSCRA to delay civil proceedings until his return unless there is already litigaiton in progress, so that paper he supposedly signed is important or if it was only his word, that you have some sort of proof or evidence in writing, also the military routinely banks DNA samples for ID purposes so if he were to die while deployed or anytime before paternity was established you would still be able to establish paternity and access your child's benefits.
Custody and visitation are different issues, separate and apart from paternity and child support. As you may also know a part of the formula for childsupport takes into account medical insurance, the incomes of both parents and parenting time. In CA these matters can be resolved in mediation so you can work out two sets of orders depending on whether he is or not deployed.

