If the process was initiated such that some information was conveyed and there was a reply back for more, it's reasonable to say that the process was started. What we can't tell you is when it will conclude with, one would hope, approval of the transfer.
You can read California's statutes on The Interstate Compact for Adult Offender Supervision here. I don't know what provision your probation officer has in mind. Consider asking him.
Your husband is a member of your immediate family.

