My question involves restraining orders in the State of: California
I went to obtain a restraining order against my x last year, he filled against me then.
The judge gave both of us temp orders until the hearing. We had both asked for permante orders for 5 years. I chickend out and never went to court, he told me he went to court and was granted his 5 year order of protection against me.
About a week later after the hearing I found a officers card on my door, it said nothing just stuck his business card in my door. I called the number no answer, I never called back.
Since then my x and I have gone back and forth. I have been spending most of my time at his house I am there 4or5nights a week and during the days, my daughter has stayed overnight many times with me. We have had a couple of fights and every time he thrents me with the police and says Im in violation of the order against me and he will call the cops and have me arrested. The problem is I've never received a call, a shread of paper anything after the hearing I have not been served anything. Do I even have an order against me and if it is possible is it void since I was never served the order after the court hearing? In addition if he does have one can he be arrested for violating his own order.
Thank you for your help
Sincerely Septtt