everyone,i am on my J 1 visa working as an au apair right now,and my husband and I got married on march 14,2011. right now,my agency knows that im getting married(i lied to them that im not married yet),they terminated my visa and wanted me to leave next week. i heard from my husband that i have 30 days grace period to leave the USA,but im not sure which one is true. should i leave asap or i leave within 30 days?
we're applying for changing my status right now,do I need to get a K3 visa or i can just turn in the forms? we dont want anything illegal,so if anyone can tell us what is the right thing to do,we're really appreciated.
ps: my husband is in the military.

