Thank you, Dr. Knowitall.
I had done the homeowrk and reviewed CT. Statute before posting the questions.
It sounds like you suggested me to have a lawyer to answer questions. I will do so; however, can you direct me to the statute about division of "post-Marriage" assessts? That is my main concern.
I am not planning on divorcing at this moment, but I want to know what my right is. I did not learn the lesson from the first two marraiges and still believe in good human nature; however, I do know I cannot afford to rebuild my retirement at the age of 55.
Q1 - What is my right to the assest, which I waived the right to disagree if she wants to sell it, but I have put in money to upgrade the house after the marriage?
Q2- What is my and her right to the adding ( after marriage) amount of money in each individual account and 401K after marriage?
Q3 after getting married we bought two properties togeter. Both names are on the deed and morgage. Will each party claim 50% regardless who pays more or less on the future renovation?[/QUOTE]

