I understand that, I really do.

However, is it really okay for him to do what hes been doing? I feel like ive been trapped. And im curious, when is it okay then for someone to hit someone else? When theyre harassing you? When theyre abusing you? When theyre threatening your life? When theyre threatening others? I do think the legal system is incredibly flawed. There is no gray area, when there should be, because extreme circumstances push people to do extreme things.