I'm 16yo and I live in California. My boyfriend is 20yo and we've been dating for almost a year now. In the beginning everything was fine, my mother knew we were dating, she allowed us to date, she allowed him in the house, she allowed me to go out with him, she had no problem with him. But throughout the months she began letting me go out with him less and less, and at one point she found a condom in my pocket which I had forgotten from my sex-ed class at school, automatically assumed we were having sex because of it and she restricted our contact to only once a week. Recently we had an argument and she forbid him to come over anymore as punishment. We have been arguing more because of it and she is threatening to file a restraining order against him if I don't behave.
My question is can my mother get a restraining order against him without proof that we are even seeing each other anymore? And can she get him in trouble for rape, when we have never had sex and she has no proof of it?
I mean I want to continue seeing him behind her back, but she will think I'm out with my friends, if we don't get caught can she still get him in trouble just for assuming I'm with him even though she doesn't know for sure? And if she can file a restraining order and she screws up our whole relationship, I'll stop seeing him, but I'm pretty much going to stop doing what she says, but I'm afraid if I make her too mad she can get him sent to jail for having sex with me even though we never had. I just don't want him to get in trouble for my actions and I want to know if he really can if my mom lies enough...

