My question involves restraining orders in the State of: South/North Carolina My wife and I live in S. Carolina. We have been getting phone calls at night (10pm or later) from a cell phone # in North Carolina. Typically the person is drunk and I have explained to them to stop calling. The person has been calling for over a week now.

At this point, the phone calls persist and we have to turn off my wifes phone at night. When she turns her phone back on, there is usually 2-3 voicemails from this person. They will not say there name, but we do have the phone #.

I know my wife can file a restraining order, but do we file it against the phone # and let the police find out who it is? Do you try to find out ourselves who the # belongs to? Do we file the R.O in South or North Carolina?

Thank you in advance