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  1. #1
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    Default How Do I Get on My Sons Birth Cert in California. His Mom Never Rarely Sees Him

    My question involves paternity law for the State of: California.
    My son is two and he lives with me. His mom only sees him maybe 3 days a month. I never married her and when my son was born i found out she cheated on me, and i just lost my job and was about to lose my house and i made a bad decison when i didn't sign the paper work in the hospital but i never left his side. I have raised him since the day he was born. his mom likes to play games i if somebody can give me direction on how to get my name on his birth certificate the easy way and the then the hard way if she won't go along with the easy way. I haven't taken a test and i am trying not to if i can help it. I belive he is mine. i don't need his name changed she gave him my last name so i don't know if that will be in my favor but i can use all the help i can get. Thank you

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    Default Re: How Do I Get on My Sons Birth Cert in California. His Mom Never Rarely Sees Him

    Why don't you want to take a test?

    There's a reason for my question.

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    Default Re: How Do I Get on My Sons Birth Cert in California. His Mom Never Rarely Sees Him

    His mom cheated on me the other guy says its not his and cant be his but i have been lied to so much by her and other people i just don't know the truth. if i take the test and he is not my blood i feel i will lose all rights with him. Even though i know i don't really have rights with him now. I guess i am just buying my time right now that if i do end up in court and they make me take a test and i find out he isnt my blood line, I can show that he has been living with me for years and i have been his father. She seems like she might be willing to work with me that is why i was asking for the easy way and then the hard way if she doesn't. I really do belive he is mine he looks just like me, i just don't want to take the chance of losing him if i don't have to. sorry for the bad grammer it has been a long week.

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    Default Re: How Do I Get on My Sons Birth Cert in California. His Mom Never Rarely Sees Him

    After looking on the California website. they have a program called the pop act. the last time i looked into it, the program was so you can have time to take a test to find out if the kid was yours or not it gave you 60 days. But I didn’t see that statement this time. I think if she is willing to sign the paper work all i have to do is go to the office and sign paper and give them 20 dollars. if not i don't what to do. I thought i would also tell you that she stated when she was in the hospital i was the father my name is on the paper my were i was born, my birthday even on the birth cert it has my birthday and the place i was born, but i didn't sign it so they left off my name on the birth cert. hope that paint a better picture for.
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