I will look into recalculating.

Yes, I have had them 57% of the time since last August. I have kept track of the nights they have been with me. The unwritten agreement has been one week on one week off (they are 5 and 4) - I want and expect 50-50.

Of course I am concerned about the kids. During a prior separation I gave her $500 at the mediators office to get her own insurance and 3 months later when we reconciled she had not done so. There will be no reconciliation this time, and I want the kids protected, but I also want her to assumer responsibility for her expenses.

Thanks for the input.