My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Illinois. I have a five year old child and am with the father though unmarried. We have stayed together throughout the years, because I wanted it to work, and he always threatened to file for full custody if I ever left. I have tried ending our relationship many times, but stayed with him out of fear of losing my child, as he claims I am unstable because I am always changing my mind about being with him, which is very true. I fear he has saved numerous "break-up letters," emails, and text messages i have written to him over the years which may paint me as a "psycho." I may be an unstable girlfriend, but I have always felt forced to stay with him. Please help. Thank you.