Sorry, I am in Texas. Neither one of us wanted the home but came to a mutual agreement in mediation and per our divorce decree that I would remain in the home until it sold and pay the mortgage so that the children would not further be disrupted. We both thought the home would sell quickly. It has now been on the market for four years with no offers. We have no "legal" arrangements or agreements or judgements that have been made or agreed to after the divorce. The only thing that stands is the original divorce decree stating that the home be sold, mortgage paid and the remainder split. I am concerned that it will just continue to remain unsold and I will continue to keep making all the payments and building equity that will in turn have to be split with him equally. I thought of buying him out since it is obviously not selling but now he wants the 10k I have built in equity over the last four years too.