My B/F and I had a child out of wedlock in 1997; he deserted her and I, for almost 2 years, he returned and a paternity test was completed showing him as her dad. We married in 2001, (which terminated the support order I had, and I signed off on back support owed due to marriage) ; we bore another child in 2003. We separated in Spring of 2004, (physically, not legally), the 2 children we have go back and forth between our homes. We are now filing for divorce. I am representing myself (Pro Se), my question to anyone knowledgeable, is this; What are MY rights as our first childs mother (dont I have sole custody?), and do I have to file for separate custody of our 2nd child due to him being an "issue of the marriage". Any and all responses are welcome. OR..if an attorney reads this..Please feel FREE to respond. We reside in Ohio, in separate counties. Thanks in advance for any responses.

