I'm not sure but I think by law harrassment only can be filed if one person isn't insulting the other for example...
I am making fun of you and saying insulting things but yet you make comments back at me then file harrassment charge, it's not good right because it's a 2 way streak.. in this case she even says i hope your holidays are s*it.... my response was well i did nothign wrong to you when we were young you just slept with everyone i know and have no respect for yourself.

