i am man and would like to file my case under VAWA as i believe that i have been abused and used in my marriage. does the rules differ for men? is it hard to prove the abuse as i was abuse more emotionally, psychologically and verbally than physical. is it necessary that i have to go through a lawyer or can i do it by myself. i dont have a work permit nor a place to stay as i have been kickout of the house. i cant afford a lawyer. any tips as to how should i go about doing this. are there any websites that give a sample self declarations that i can see and write my declaration. few things i want to know-
1. i know that USC/LPR'S have the right to withdraw their spouses pitition when ever they want but dont the spouses have the right to know that his or her petition is withdrawn?
2.is it legal for USC/LPR'S concele or hide the fact of petition withdrawl inorder to get the services of their spouses and use them for thier personal gain. can this be considered as an abuse?
3. do the spouses of USC/LPR'S who come to this country after marrying them in good faith have any rights of their own to defend their identity? or are they just left under the mercy of their petitioners? can i get information on any rights that exists for non-immigrants.
please help me out with these questions.
thanks

