well I offered to go in on a fence with her ON the line so we both can make the best of smaller back yards and she didn't jump on the offer so I'm not clear on what she really wants.... If she wants me to build a fence a foot back from the line also, shes smoking crack. She should have contacted me when she decided to build in the first place but this is the first time I've even ever met her. (we met the neighbors across the street when they backed out into our car lol)
Ill go check out the permits before I say another word to her.... I cant believe the home builders would violate the code like that, but if in the case they did, do I just tell her leave the fence thing alone or Ill report your house as not within code (its a 5669sft lot so it should be 5' sides) and I also read in the covenants that eaves aren't subject to overhanging property lines so that's out, oh well.

