My question involves a marriage in the state of:California here is my situation i have been married at least 20 years and have been living with my wife for also over 20 years well we bought a house 3 years ago we are making payments with a settlement i received for 17 k which we used for the down payment well anyways im on ssi disability and have been sick with diabetes we have a 19 yr old and a 8yr old son that she agrees on me having visitation rights and everything i agree for her to keep the house but i only get 743 from ssi and that's it i asked her for 400 a month and to keep my car insurance paid for she agrees i do not want the divorce but she does so i pray for a Christmas miracle what can i do legally im going from a beautiful 3 bedroom house with a pool to a studio apartment she makes 22 dollars an hour and has a secure job we do not have anything in the banks worth fighting over or own anything besides an old pick up our other cars are being payed on i do not know what to do please help ..thanks for your help im very lost and scared