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WOW!! Thanks so much!!

Regarding custody: Do we have to go though a court process to decide who gets custody? Or is it typically given to the mother provided she is a fit parent (which I am more than). He wants joint custody...but I honestly think it's only because he thinks he wont have to pay child support that way. And I really wouldnt mind joint custody, the only problem is I would like to move out of state in the future. How does that work?

there are two different "custody the first would be legal and that just means he and you have to work together to choose best school, dr, sports and all that . second would be physical and that would be like week at your house week at his house.

My bestfriend lived in Ohio and had both legal and physical custody of her son and moved to Arizona they had to go to court on it and it was awarded she could move but she has to pay 100% Travel for her son to go back there for his visitation