My question involves paternity law for the State of: new york. My ex-girlfriend and the mother of three of my children has summoned me for support for my three children,which I have no problem with however she has also summoned me for support for a child that she is expecting which is NOT my child. We were never married and I am currently married to someone else,the problem is this,if I take the paternity test it is the sane to my wife as admitting to an affair that I did NOT have! The girl is delusional and stalking me myself and my wife currently have an order of protection against her and she is facing three criminal charges already for harassing us. Can I refuse to take a paternity test? And if I do can they hold me in contempt of court for refusing? Please help me my family is at stake. I can't let this crazy stalker girl ruin my marriage and life!