My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Minnesota
The father of my child waited 3 1/2 years to try to have any contact of our child. In the middle of the night I was served papers, and he was asking to have my child every Thursday night, and every other weekend. I could'nt believe it. I had to get an attorney, and now it's a year later, and the Judge has let him have supervised visits. This has been going on for 4 months now. I can't keep my attorney, because it's draining me financially. I am so confused about all of this. I still can't believe that i'm the one with an attorney, and he never had one, and he seems to be getting everything he wants. What can I do? There must be something else I can do to stop this. This is emotionally hurting my child. My child now has accidents, and sleeping with me almost every night. This has been hurting my child, and I can't seem to stop these visits. Next month we go back to court to see what to do next... how can I stop this. What if a guardian Ad litem happens next? Someone that knows nothing about us...this could work in his favor.. he is very manipulative. I'm worried that they are going to eventually allow non supervised visits. Does anyone out there have anything going on like me? I could use any help! The father also has 2 other children out there who he only has contact with them every 3 years...messes with there head, and then never sees them for 3 years again. I dont want that for my child.

