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1. When I file, will FOC automatically stay out of it since SHE has the children and she lives in Florida? Doesnt she have to file for child support in FLorida? It was our agreement to each take one child and forgo child support in return of me taking over 75% of marital debt. Do i need to notify the court in my initial complaint that defendant lives with children in Florida?? How do i include this agreement we have RE: child support?
If you file a divorce with kids, FOC will automatically be involved. You may be able to short-cut their involvement if you convince them that the Michigan action is just for divorce, with the domicile of the children now being Florida. I am not sure, though, that you will be better off having the custody issues resolved both separately and in Florida.

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2. We want to waive the 6 month period, we havent lived as man and wife since late 2003, and she actually told me early 2004, she is already living with someone else and he is taking care of her. DO I FILE the petetion to waive AT THE SAME TIME as the complaint, or do i wait till i file the motion of entry for divorce?
You would petition to waive the waiting period when you file, or as soon as possible after filing.

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3. Lastly, she is to take on loan = $12,500, i am taking the rest of the debt which equals close to $30,000. We are both named on the loan she is to take, BY WHAT MEANS can i enter a plea that she refinanace or pay off this loan ASAP as i cannot secure another home due to my debt/income ratio. Could i petetion court? would i do that with initial complaint? I know court cant make her pay, i just want it written somewhere!
You would need to resolve issues of property division and debt in the judgment of divorce, either by consent or following trial.