I have a few questions i need answered, if you could help i would appreciate it.
My wife & children moved to Fl late in 2003, i was suppuse to follow after selling our home, i sold home in April 2004, and she wanted a divorce. I NEVER WENT to Florida. I beleive this was a plan all along.
I am filing divorce papers myself, she has already wiped me out of any funds i have, i cant afford a lawyer.
1. When I file, will FOC automatically stay out of it since SHE has the children and she lives in Florida? Doesnt she have to file for child support in FLorida? It was our agreement to each take one child and forgo child support in return of me taking over 75% of marital debt. Do i need to notify the court in my initial complaint that defendant lives with children in Florida?? How do i include this agreement we have RE: child support?
2. We want to waive the 6 month period, we havent lived as man and wife since late 2003, and she actually told me early 2004, she is already living with someone else and he is taking care of her. DO I FILE the petetion to waive AT THE SAME TIME as the complaint, or do i wait till i file the motion of entry for divorce?
3. Lastly, she is to take on loan = $12,500, i am taking the rest of the debt which equals close to $30,000. We are both named on the loan she is to take, BY WHAT MEANS can i enter a plea that she refinanace or pay off this loan ASAP as i cannot secure another home due to my debt/income ratio. Could i petetion court? would i do that with initial complaint? I know court cant make her pay, i just want it written somewhere!
Thank you in advance. PLEASE give any advice you can.

