My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Texas.
I have been divorced from my children's father since early 2008. He was given standard possession/visitation, even after the Judge heard from my oldest child about the physical abuse his father did to him and his younger siblings. One of the children later came forward to me about their father touching them inappropriately. I then done what I was told to do by the Law Enforcement, and reported this to the CID and CPS. CID had set up and appointment with the Child Advocate center to interview my child without contacting the CPS office, therefor CPS would not take my childs case. The D.A. tossed out everything, saying there was not enough physical evidence proving that this was done to my child. For the life of me, I still don't understand what more they could ask of a child. My children where put into counseling and have been going once to twice a month for a year now. The therapist has spoken with my children and firmly believes this act has happened to the child as far as the inappropriate touching, as well as the physical abuse. The Therapist has reported that in the best interest and safety of the children that the father shall not have access to them. The Judge temporally suspended his visitation in Dec 2009, and has ordered that at the discretion of the Therapist, the father may sit in on the Children's counseling sessions. A few days after her ruling, and me acquiring a copy of the Docket Sheet with the judges ruling, was one of my children's appointment. I was to inform the Therapist of the judges ruling and show her a copy of the Docket Sheet. As my child and I were called to into her office, the Father showed up without notice. When my child saw the father, they turned and clung to me, shaking and crying hysterically, the Therapist asked who he was, and he said he was the father and was allowed to be there, in turn I handed her to Docket Sheet and told her it was at her discretion. The Therapist asked my child if it was OK for the father to stay, and the child shook their head no, and when the Therapist asked if the child wanted him to leave, they said yes. He was made to leave and informed that the Therapist would get back to him at the end of the day and consult him on the treatment, which she did. The father has contacted the Therapist and asked how the sessions have been going and if he was able to sit in on a session. The Therapist informed him that the children were not ready to meet with him yet and that there has been no change. The father has only done this for 3 months and then stopped after he wrote the children letter's. He called the Therapist and got impatient and went to her office. He was very rude with her after he was informed that the children read the letter's and asked her to please dispose of them and that they want nothing to do with him.
The father has not once called his children since the Judges ruling in Dec 2009, and the Therapist has written letter's to my attorney informing her of the findings as well as the father making contact. These letter's were never presented to the Judge, and the father's attorney told the Judge that the Therapist was not cooperating with him (the father) on the treatments, so the Judge ruled they can keep seeing the same Therapist, but must see another Therapist as well. The medical Insurance that we have will only cover one Therapist. How can a judge who used to be a Lawyer specializing in Family law, rule such a thing? This will cause a backwards spiral of the progress the children have had with their Therapist and will start everything over from the beginning, not to forget the emotional trauma they have to endure of switching to a different Therapist after getting comfortable with their current Therapist and trusting her. Also, how can she still allow him to have any rights to these children after the children refused to visit him with them crying out not only to the judge, police, CPS, but also to their Therapist? What else can I do to keep my children safe from such a person? He is also behind in child support. The judge has yet to punish him for any contempt he has been in. He owes his children over $18,000. He has not offered to call the children to see how they have been, need anything or nothing like that at all. He has always had an control issue. He wants it his way or no way at all. It's all about control and he has also made it very clear during the divorce process that he would never stop and leave me alone. He is remarried, but still constantly harasses myself, and the children with the constant court battles. Yes, I have reported him to the Attorney General's Office, but again nobody is doing anything. He claims to be working but has yet to turn over any pay stubs or proof of his current income. The judge ordered him to pay by Texas law 35% of his income which was the amount of $1350 a month for 4 children. The state with holds $427 a month out of his retirement pay every month. It is like I can't get anywhere in this county and state especially with that Judge. Please, any kind of advice would be nice. I really need help and my lawyer seems to playing both sides just to pull more money out of me, money which I don't have and would rather put every penny on my children.
How can I get a different Judge? How I can get full custody of my children with all the Therapist findings? How can I protect my children? How much further can I get pushed into a corner?
Thank you in advance

