Thank you so much for your reply. It helps put my mind at ease.I have always been involved and we (dad and step mom) have normally had an amazing relationship. He flies off the handle when I have a question about such things as this. My son told me the other day that Daddy is always drunk and my daughter cries and tells me that he needs an inpatient facility to help him. What upsets me is when I decide to allow them to live there he was very involved as a parent. Now, he is never home and leaves all the caring for and raising to the kids step mother. I have them there so he can raise them along WITH her and me. Right now that isn't the case. They are afraid I will try to go to court so they don't want me involved and do whatever it takes to keep me out of the loop. He doesn't attend school meeting, or diabetes appointments. I take my son to all of his diabetes appointments along with his step mother. His step mom and dad never tell me about school things until last minute. His Father doesn't attend any of them but his step mother will. It is great she is involved and I am thankful but if he isn't raising my son then I believe I should be able to, not his step mother.
Again, thanks so much for you reply. I can't tell you how much it is appreciated.![]()

