My question involves a marriage in the state of:Georgia
I have a question, its pretty straight forward I think , or I hope
What are the chances of a women with three children getting a separation from a man that has :
1) beaten her 12 years old son ie : pulled him off a trampoline forced him onto the ground, twisted his arm around his back,while holding him down in the dirt with his foot on his back, beat him with his belt ( for absolutely no reason ), shoves him around like pushing him literally, he once shoved a steal pot into his chest at full thrust, constantly picks on him physically , constantly puts him down verbally always criticizing him but never every sais anything negative to the girls, he refers to the girls as his real daughters and his step son the one he bullies as his step son not his real son .....the abuse is less now because the mom has intervened but he still continues to put him down, he does all this without any kind of explanation or reasoning, he just does it for the hell of it.. so the boy is now simply scared of him.
the boy now has serious issues with cutting himself and making himself bleed amongst other issues too, he is in an advanced programe for super intelligent kids and the mother is afraid of him losing his grades due to the constant abuse
2) she never touched a drink before she met him, but after all the abuse with her son and the sexual and physical abuse with her she took to the drink to hide the pain and shame, when she used to have a drink he would wait till she passed out then he would rape her, on many occasions he would encourage her to take sleeping pills while she was already drunk, the reason he used to do this was so he could force oral sex while she was not only unconscious but sometimes vomiting / choking
On new years night passed he waited for her to pass out again but this time it was on the front path of her house 7 feet away from the busy main road, she recalls being naked in below zero freezing temperatures, on the ground, unable to move her arms and legs, in and out of consciousness while he was in her mouth and doing penetration to her too ......... this was going on for years ....... she now does no longer drink but she is very very close to drinking again ..........you see not only has he done all these things to her he still stalks her, room to room, he don't let her breath for a second not even in her own house, when she wants to go for a run he stalks her, and I mean follows her , making sure she does not have a single min alone without him, the only thing he allows her to do on her own is go to work.
so many years of abuse and stalking and not letting her breathe has caused her to become a recluse,mentally very very unbalanced, scared and guilty, he has even made her feel guilty for being the one to create all the problems ........
it goes on and on , I havent mentioned a lot of stuff he has done .....he has stressed her menatlly to the point where she got so scared one time that she took a knife to bed thinking he as going to attack her, she laid in the dark room so scared, then suddenly the door openned, she got her knife out and was about to use it, till she heard the voice of her daughter ................ need I say anymore?
but the conclusion is this :
the abuse has been so prolonged that she has become severely unbalanced, she has no sense of judgment anymore, she is scared, it was only one year ago that she took pills and if it wasnt for me on the phone she would have gone unconcious and never came back because that is what she was trying to do , commit suicide
she is almost on the brink of returning to that state, he has crushed the life out of her , ...
She has asked him to leave, she has told him that he is the one that is making her mentally unstable, she has told him that she needs to get medical assistance because of him and all his years of abuse to her and her son .....but he is refusing to leave
even after she has begged him many times to set her free, she does not love him anymore obviously because the nature of the abuse to her and her son ..... she has begged him to go so that she can begin to recover or she knows she is going to go down again in his hands ( this is what he has always wanted by the way ) ......
She is not going to survive his constant stalking and grabbing her face and touching her against her will, he used to rape her constantly, she now has locks on her bedroom door of which he broke down one night .............
H refuses to go he has told her '' i dont care about your mental sanity, and the only way you can get me out of here is if the police pull me out '' those ere his words
He will not allow her to get medical help , he will not allow her to send her own kids to her mums, he will not allow her to go away full stop, he will not leave the house, he remains there constantly harassing her and my fear is that he is very close to causing her just like he did before to crack under his bullying, if this happens, those three kids will lose their mom.
His last wife died of a heart attack, but he sais the Dr's verdict was wrong, I happen to know and have live recordings of how he has nearly and still trying to stress my friend into doing herself in ............he has successfully done it before
PLease , she has asked me to investigate on her behalf how she can get some kind of a separation from him, he will not allow a divorce, he has told her he is staying till death do us part and I know he means it, so how can she get this an out of her life, end the abuse of her and her son, how can she get counseling to stop her from going under again .......... time is going to tell a very sad story unless I can find out how she can separate from this sick person and get as she put it ' him away from her and her family '' ???
kind regards
Charles

