Ok here is the situation My 27 yr old brother and his girlfriend have forcefully moved in to my grandmothers home in California where I also live w/ my 9 yr old daughter in exchange for handling the bills and finances and taking care of her needs I pritty much stay rent free. My boyfriend also stays here. "But we had an agreement with my grandma before she took sick that he and I could stay and we would pay $125 a week. Over time when bills got to much for her do to the alzhiemers we renogotiated out aggreement to we'll pay the electric bill and I'll help with her finances and care. My brother moved in about a yr and a half ago or so ago against our grandmas wishes. she is the home owner and when he first showed up she asked him to leave and told him that he was not staying here. Of course he didn't listen and and we have only let him stay due to fear and intimidation. He is a very violent person and has made many threats towards us. sence he moved himself in our electric bill went from $178 to $597 a mounth. as did meny other bills. She is repetedly getting notices and fines from the city becase of his vehicals, and nieborhood activities. He has repeatedly hit us and walks around saying "I am the baddest mother f***er here and aint nobody going to make me leave." He is constantly flooding our house with criminals and criminal activity. if we address him or his friends about their behavior we are told that we need to respect him and his friends. we are all living in fear of this man and don't know how we can safely remove him from our home. He says if we kick him out he will retaliate. He pays no rent. We cant afford to suport him any more. Grandma is now in the later stages of alzheimers. She has gone from being coherent to not knowing her own name in less than a year. My uncle is her poa but wont do anything about it because he is afraid also. He and his girl friend have shown no intrest in seeking employment or a residance of there own. My brother has stated that he is waiting for grandma to pass on and can't hardly wait. He has just about exhosted he retirement resorces leaving us with little option on what we are going to do if we have to put her in to a home which I don't hink we can do with out selling her home. we want him out but he refuses to go.
Is he breaking any elder abuse laws that we can put him in jail for at least tell we can gather our courage to handle an eviction? we just really need him out of her home for her own helth and safty.