My question involves divorce in the State of: FL
I was divorced in Florida 15 years ago and still live there. During my divorce and subsequently no QDRO was ever completed. My ex-wife who now lives overseas was awarded 50% of my pension with an overseas company and the divorce judgment states that "the ex-wife is awarded a one half interest in the husband's pension and that the ex-wife's interest in this asset is meant is meant to survive the death of the husband".
I presume that as I am only around 2 years away from retirement my ex-wife wrote to me recently requesting that I contact the pension company to obtain a "pack" that would allow her to be paid directly. When I received the reply from the company they are stating very clearly that they will not recognize a US divorce judgment, will not pay her directly and will not recognize her for any benefits past my death. In other words they will only deal directly with me.
How do I stand given this is totally at odds with the divorce agreement, particularly with regards to the survivor benefits?

