Hi. It's crazy bc I'm in the same situation. I was dating a married man for 3 years and our affair has been over for more than 3 months now. His wife also texts me at least once a week calling me a whore and now saying she will kill me. I have her texts messages, emails, and even a voicemail. It has escalated to her banging on my door several times and even sitting outside of my job. She is obsessed with me. I live in Virginia also. I went to the magistrates office to get a restraining order but come to find out our wonderful commonwealth only issues protective orders against familiy members or people who live with you. They said I have to file criminal charges. Then it goes to court. Can you give me advice on what you did to get a conviction against your stalker and has she stopped bothering you? Thanks

