actually the ceremony was in texas (where he lives) and im in oklahoma. and its not that he wont consent to the jurisdiction (thats not what matters to him bc there is no aquired property on either side). he just doesnt want the divorce and will not sign. so what im trying to figure out is how to not only file here, but not have to get his signature. is there any law in either state that may benifit to that since we have never resided in the same household?