This is a two year divorce and costs over 100K, final decree entered. My x recently got a DWI and has tried to hide the facts. Apparently drinking has become an issue, my kids both minors are not aware but there are other factors like missing 70 days of school last year.
I went to the DWI hearing, case was continued. yes she was shocked but I was there at the recommendation of the GAL to find out what is going on. I'm waiting for re-assignment of GAL to case.
when I approached the courthouse my X told a sheriff that there was a PO against me, he came out and stopped my entry, I gave my id and asked him to check, he went back in and my X admitted that there is not a PO.
After the trial my X went to JDR and tried to get a protective order. I know because I saw her in line at JDR. I called the GAL and informed her.
The clerks at the court issue her a show cause/ failure to comply with PO against me. I received the summons 14 days later. I file a subpeona for the sheriff , the GAL and subpeona duces tecom for phone records the day of court.
15 days before court I got a call from the jdr clerks court and was told that the case would not be heard and that I did not have to appear and that she would not be there. I asked to speak to the clerk of the court. A week later I got the call from the clerk of the court and was told the same thing, I recorded the conversation so I could make sure I was hearing correctly.
One week before court I got a motion to squash from her lawyer the phone records.
I called the clerks office again to make sure that the case was not going to be heard.
I also taped this conversation. case will not be heard and she will not be there. I asked who she was they indicated my X. I asked how they knew that. She said they called her first.
Being a good citizen that was summoned, I showed up for court with my lawyer and wow guess what everyone was there, the X, her lawyer etc....
I actually found a place to make myself scarce until we were called. We got called in and they did not show up, yet the GAL talked to both the X and her lawyer.
Yes, it is wierd but I can prove every single event incuding the clerks phone calls.
The divorce has been just like this the whole time. The very first thing that happened was the answers to interrogatories from her all had answers of attorney client privilidged information, Had to get a court order to force the answers. 25 times in court against her lawyer, she only showed up 7 times, The lawyer was sanctioned by one judge and I proved the lawyer lied to another.
So the question remains, what to do? File a bar complaint, do I issue a lawsuit, o to the DA? All of the above.