My question involves a child custody case from the State of: VA
My ex and I share joint legal and joint physical custody of our daughter with my ex designanted as initial primary caretaker. For visitation, we have the wonderful phrase 'the parties shall determine visitation between them' and nothing else. (Yes I know this needs to be more concrete... we are working on that)
So here are my questions:
1. So if we can't agree on when and for how long I see my daughter, does that mean I just have to deal with it, or can I legally pick my daughter up and take her to my house? (I live in NJ my ex and daughter live in VA)
2. I sometimes travel for work overnight (sometimes for 2-3 nights even), if it is my agreed upon custody/visitation time, can my ex legally stop me from leaving my daughter with my new wife?
Thanks for any insights.

