My question involves criminal law for the state of: Florida

I've been charged with domestic violence and tampering with victim on the same case. I do not believe I fit the statute for DV as we never lived together, I am not on the birth certificate of the child and she denies knowing who the father is and we were never married. My question is if I wait until I am in jeopardy and submit these facts, would the charge of DV be thrown out leaving only the tampering charge? Or is the exsistance of the two charges together make it impossible to use this strategy?

I was charged at first with simple DV Battery, then 7 days later also charged on the same incident with Felony DV Battery. Three different police reports over 7 days escalating in the violence. The simple battery was dropped, no info. I am to respond to a possible plea deal tomorrow. My ex isa very vindictive woman and her new boyfriend has a cop in his family that has been helping her get as much as pssible against me. Any help here please, thanks.