
Quoting
zorch240
My question involves child support in the State of: New York
We are seperated and me another man whom she has a kid with pay her a combined sum of over $200/ week.She uses this money to buy cigarettes,have hi-speed internet to play facebook games on all day,buy gas to drive her friends around with,her cell phone bill,etc.....She says its "her" money,but I thought child support was to go all to the children,maybe i was mistaken.She acts smug and says "I"pay this bill,"i" pay that bill,but the only money she has had for years is the money me and another man have given her that I "thought" was suppose to all go to my kids.She hasn't held a job in years.She really dont have many bills to pay regardless,as a charitable organization has paid almost her entire rent every month for at least 8 yrs."None" of the money goes to the kids,"she"spends it all,says child support is for "the household",which really means its a reason she can spend it all on herself.At least I dont have have to worry about my kids starving due to this selfish person,as she has also got about $500/month in food stamps for years,which I am hoping means my kids get to eat.My question is simply "isn't child support to completely go to the children"?Its not like its alimony.If she wants luxuries,which she makes sure she has with child support money,shouldn't she get at least a part time job to cover her own "self absorbed,asshole support?"