California.
I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22. (Please keep your comments on the age to yourself). We had sex and we were caught by the police. Recently he had his arraignment and they named him one count for unlawful sexual intercourse PC 261.5(c) as a felony. They also put a restraining order (From what someone working with the case told me) and she said it's applying to everyone right now. I guess he plead not guilty, and he's going to pretrial.
I want to know is it possible for him or me to get the no contact order lifted? I wrote a letter to the judge and I am unsure if they had a chance to read it. I was told that the order might be modified or something on his pretrial date. I was not served with anything, also. How would I get it? Would a local police officer bring it to me? Can I fly down there and tell the judge I don't want it at his pretrial?
I am REALLY confused on how this works. Will there be a temporary restraining order date that I have to attend?

