Precedent needs to be relevant.

In your family law situation neither of the two cases you quoted have any relevance.

You're trying to compare apples to scrawny hedgehog roadkill (so to speak).

Seriously, I really do advise you to stop what you're doing and in the morning call an attorney. WA Bar Association can help you as can your county's legal aid.

I do understand where you're coming from and what you're trying to do, but you can actually hurt your case if you're not sure of what you're doing, you know?