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  1. #21
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    Default Re: I'm 16 and He's 25

    It's not the posters here that are one-sided, princess. It's the law.

    And I know you will find this infuriating, and you won't believe me, but you are simply not old enough to have the kind of judgement your parents have. We've all been 16, and so have your parents. But you haven't been - older than 16.

    We simply have more experience with the law, and with human nature, than you have.

  2. #22
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    Default Re: I'm 16 and He's 25

    Quote Quoting pure-beauty
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    My dad on the other hand doesn't want me to have contact with him or see him. my dad has never meet him or now him like my mom does. Hes telling me if I don't stop seeing him he will turn him into the police.
    Dad can attempt to get a restraining order against him, and if he can show that the two of you had sex, he can go to prison.

    Can my ex-boyfriend(25 year old) get in trouble for just being my friend if the mom says its ok but the dad says no? I don;t want to just give him up hes very close to me and i don't think its fare.
    He might be able to get the guy into trouble, yes. And, quite frankly, he might even be able to get mom in trouble for permitting this relationship. I'd say he has solid grounds to cause trouble for mom's custody. It is not usual for a man of 25 to be dating a 16 year old for a host of reasons. When you are an adult of 18, and if he still finds you attractive and you find him still to be Mr, Wonderful, the two of you can carry on. Until then, you could cause him a great many problems if dad wants to stir the pot.

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    Default Re: Im 16 and Hes 25 Need

    Quote Quoting pure-beauty
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    Now i'm starting to question how mature you really are? sounds like your a little one sided to everything...

    are you married or did that end? and if it did i wonder why.....



  4. #24
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    Default Re: I'm 16 and He's 25

    Even if they aren't dating and they truly are friends I'm not sure who has more mental problems, a 24 year old man that wants to hang around with a 15 year old little girl, or the 15 year old girls mother for letting this low-life hang around her daughter.

    If I were dad I would make an unexpected visit to the house when this low-life was there with his daughter and call the police saying that I saw him forcing himself on my daughter even if he did not...

  5. #25
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    Default Re: I'm 16 and He's 25

    I believe cdwjava pretty much covered it. The one thing that I'm not absolutely sure on is if your father can get a restraining order if he does not have custody of you. That might be a no. If that is the case then he can’t stop you from seeing the guy if your mother and step-father are okay with it. I'm not an expert on California law. You might want to ask a lawyer about this.

    I did want to add one thing. You seem a bit more mature then a 16 year old your age and I commend you for not doing anything sexual with this guy. But what I will say is most of what the other posters have posted (although a bit harsh) about your BF’s intentions are true.

    But there is no absolute so I will explain it to you like this. Approximately 90% of guys his age who date a girl your age is doing what the guys above said, taking advantage of your age. Could your BF be the exception? Sure. But in real life terms the chances of that is that if you date 10 guys his age that only one will be decent (and that’s still a maybe). So by that standard, your BF’s motivations aren’t looking too pure.

    But it is your life. You can do what you want but please be careful. And if you really want to test this guy tell him "your waiting till marriage for sex and you don’t plan on getting married till you are at least 23." Say and follow it and you will find out if your BF is the exception. I wish you the best of luck.

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    Default Re: I'm 16 and He's 25

    Dad can ABSOLUTELY get a restraining order even if he doesn't have custody of the child.

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    Default Re: I'm 16 and He's 25

    Fallout, I'm thinking you probably don't have children, correct? Like Dog told you, dad can ABSOLUTELY pursue this, divorced, CP/NCP, doesn't matter, he is STILL her father.

  8. #28
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    Default Re: I'm 16 and He's 25

    If dad has any shared LEGAL custody, sure. If he has no legal custody, then no.

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    Default Re: I'm 16 and He's 25

    Quote Quoting mamabear2102003
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    Fallout, I'm thinking you probably don't have children, correct? Like Dog told you, dad can ABSOLUTELY pursue this, divorced, CP/NCP, doesn't matter, he is STILL her father.
    I'm guessing that fallout doesn't have children...He just likes to schutp them. Perhaps he had a little "fallout" from a legal child he was "involved" with and not seeks to "help" other LEGAL molesters and their confused victims.

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