I had a protective order against me, i went thru the court process and it got nollied. long story short, we talked for a while again, she hurt me, and i ended up trying to kill myself. now she filed for a restraining order. I havnt done anything unlawful ( maybe stupid ), but would i need to go to court again for all this? the restraining order has not been issued yet, she just went to court today to file for it. I plan on going out of state for a while to clear my head, but i dont wanna risk getting a failure to appear.