I live in NJ. My wife had an affair for about 3 years on-and-off. I had a break down when I discovered her infidelity and have now been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and have had to take several medications along with many hours of therapy due to the affair ..... Can I take this SOB to court?

Sue the pants (or skirt) off your wife. She is the cheating scum-sucking unfaithful moron who broke her vows.