This is in Virginia.
My wife and I are pseudo-separated. I say that because nothing has been done legally. She is having an affair for the last year, and basically comes and goes as is convenient for her. Both vehicles are in both our names.
What recourse do I have to prevent the man she is having an affair with from using or being in our vehicles? She said she asked an attorney and I cannot say who cannot be in our vehicle if she says otherwise. Is this correct?
The same goes for our home. It is in both or names. Can I legally prevent him from entering our home, even if she says he can?

