Not a bad guy, well no, but I don’t know you well enough to make that call.
However, you do seem to display an incredible knack for making bad choices though..

I would suggest you start telling the truth. and excepting the consequences for not doing so in the beginning
THAT would be being a good father.

Any sentencing that may come out of all of this is up to the Judge.
Look at it like this, If you’re caught lying, you stand a better chance of doing more jail time than otherwise.
Cops get extremely annoyed at people who lye to them.
In your case it’s kinda like trying to put out a fire with gasoline..

If you haven’t already done so, I would you recommend you speak with an attorney,
They should give you a better idea what you’re up against.
I’d also suggest supervised visitation until such time you and your daughters mother can behave yourselves

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