Grandma has just about raised the first child who is 5 years old. Mother has issues of drug use, on SSI we believe for mental problems. Grandmother wants a life and she either gets child or moves on and then the kids will really suffer. My sons child is 2 years old. Has been to mediation before with the mother but had to drop it because of stress caused by the mother, almost lost his job also. Example, he had two weeks off and mother could not make it to a meeting, they met together, first week back to work and she could go so he had to miss half day of work. Mother controls everything and everyone, she is good at this.

How does dad pay lawyer to file contempt charges in court everytime?

Thats why we did not like what the lawyers did.

Mother has no money. Greatgrandmother paying for lawyer.

Grandmother has not worked for two years, broke.

Son, works, has house payment , wife and 1 child and another one on the way and pays child support for his other child. In short he is all spend out yet if it works out like last time, he will end up paying for all three of them.
Thats why we wanted to do it in court so the judge could at least hear it.