Your right, its about the children. The grandmother and my son want to have their say first in court before we go to the mediator and see if they can afford it. Who knows what the judge would say after hearing the grandmother tell her side. She had the kids for 5 months without the mothers help or taking them. Now of course she is the perfect mother. Also the mother is in contempt of court under the parenting guide as far as we can figure. In fact face we found out that the mother has not changed the last name on the social security card and the court ordered the name change over a year ago. We wonder if she is getting social security benefits for the boys and still collecting child support from my son under a different name. My son cannot get the name changed because he does not have access to his sons medical records as the mother will not grant access even though the parenting guidelines say shem must, she does want she wants.
This move right now plays into the hands of the mother as she knows the grandmother and my son do not have much money and the longer she can play this out she will win.
Thats why we figure the lawyers should have asked before going ahead and doing this behind their backs as that is what it feels like.
Want to get back into court first.

