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    Default Re: Trial Separation Where Neither of Us Want Much

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    I do have a somewhat unusual suggestion.

    If money is no real big deal, how about the child stays put in the house and each of the parents "live" there during their parenting time?

    There's a name for this. Can I remember what it's called? Nope!
    to consider this money must be no object since there needs to be 3 households maintained. One for the mother when she is not in the child's home; one for the father when he is not in the child's home; and the home the child lives in and the parent's do occasionally.

    It also requires the parent's to either have a second set of personal items such as clothes and other stuff or bring everything with them.

    Personally I think that is the worst idea ever.

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    Default Re: Trial Separation Where Neither of Us Want Much

    These parents seem to want the best for their son - it's a viable alternative at least in the short term. and it can work brilliantly.

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    Default Re: Trial Separation Where Neither of Us Want Much

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    to consider this money must be no object since there needs to be 3 households maintained. One for the mother when she is not in the child's home; one for the father when he is not in the child's home; and the home the child lives in and the parent's do occasionally.

    It also requires the parent's to either have a second set of personal items such as clothes and other stuff or bring everything with them.

    Personally I think that is the worst idea ever.
    I'm not trying to put words in Doggie's mouth, but I have been known to suggest this same thing. Why?

    Because parents seem to think it's OK to have their child practically living out of a suitcase, bouncing from house to house and eventually trying to not schedule their preteen/teenage activities when it's the other parent's time or missing out on stuff because it's the other parents time, instead of the parents making ALL the sacrifices because they put their child(ren) in this mess. The only person who didn't ask for any of this is the child, but the child is the only one who has to pay for their parents' mistakes.

    Do they have to maintain 3 residences? Yeah, but so. If they don't want to do it, then get a house with 3 bedrooms and let that child grow some roots. Everyone is ready to say that their child is the most important person in their world, so long as it doesn't inconvenience them much.

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