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    Default Re: Multiple Counts of Failure to Appear for Probation Revocation

    Why are the responses to this person so loaded with venom? Why can't we just try to help folks without assailing them or others personally for mistakes made? I know it's an older post, but I keep seeing personal attacks for people seeking help and advice.

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    Default Re: Multiple Counts of Failure to Appear for Probation Revocation

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    Why are the responses to this person so loaded with venom? Why can't we just try to help folks without assailing them or others personally for mistakes made? I know it's an older post, but I keep seeing personal attacks for people seeking help and advice.
    It's okay for you say (well, type) that the posters are full of venom...but it's not okay for anyone else to comment?


    And you resurrected a thread from 2012 just to say your piece?

    Well, nobody is forced to stay on the board. If you don't like it, there seems to be a very simple option.

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    Default Re: Multiple Counts of Failure to Appear for Probation Revocation

    Can you answer the second question?

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    Can you answer the second question?

    Why don't you ask a legal question? Or are you here for no other reason than to be picky?

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    Default Re: Multiple Counts of Failure to Appear for Probation Revocation

    I'll take that as "no, I cannot answer why we cannot just try to help folks without assailing them or others personally for mistakes made".

    This is a resource for people to get help, not be assailed personally. If you cannot understand or respect that concept, you should be shown the door by the moderator/s.

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    Default Re: Multiple Counts of Failure to Appear for Probation Revocation

    Since you are not sharp on the uptake, that was a polite way of saying this guy is toxic. He always will be toxic. For your own benefit get away from him. It is supposed to provoke introspection.

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    I'll take that as "no, I cannot answer why we cannot just try to help folks without assailing them or others personally for mistakes made".

    This is a resource for people to get help, not be assailed personally. If you cannot understand or respect that concept, you should be shown the door by the moderator/s.

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    Default Re: Multiple Counts of Failure to Appear for Probation Revocation

    You make my point through your insult of my intelligence, which is unwarranted and disrespectful.
    You should be shown the door as well. I'm trying to improve things here, but it's too toxic. This used to be moderated more closely. I just feel sorry for the folks finding out they will be attacked when their legal issues are brought out. There seems to be a lack of common courtesy prevailing.... very disappointing to see here.

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    Default Re: Multiple Counts of Failure to Appear for Probation Revocation

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    Why are the responses to this person so loaded with venom? Why can't we just try to help folks without assailing them or others personally for mistakes made? I know it's an older post, but I keep seeing personal attacks for people seeking help and advice.

    I'll bite, What makes my comment venomous? This OP is blaming everyone and anyone but her loved on for his mistakes. She asked what can we do? It's not her responsibility. She won't let him take responsibility. She is annoying the PO by calling him to champion for a man with 9 FTA's! So I responded with reality. What was venomous about it?

    The other poster did the same thing. There is nothing OP could have done, there is nothing that she should do. That is what she was told. In a way that shows her how her deflection of responsibility of her loved one is unfair and unrealistic to everyone who were actually doing their jobs.

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