
Quoting
kathy1981
He cannot financially afford to care for a child for an 8 week period. As soon as I get his wages garnished for child support, insurance, garnishment for attorney fees, and garnishment for arrearages in child support, he will be about $500 in the negative each month. He won't be able to afford to put our child in daycare while he works...it just won't be possible. Also, with a continued history of domestic violence, his past history of being abused as a child, I don't see how the courts would agree that that would be in the best interest of our daughter.
Also, my fiance and I discussed the divorce aspect. He said in the event of a divorce, he would not try to gain custodial rights over my daughter. If we had a child, he would pay child support for both kids as he has taken on the responsibility of my daughter if he does legally adopt her.