My question involves child abuse or neglect in the State of: AL

I posted two weeks ago about wanting primary custody of my infant. Wife and I are going through the process of divorce but are still married. I realized due to responses that the reason courts favor mothers is because the kids usually already lived with them. So I decided my best chance was for the baby to *already* live with me. So I went to the house where she is staying with her friend in the middle of the night and took the baby.

Three hours later, I have a crying baby. I try to feed the baby formula, but she won't take it. This is because my manipulative ex was solely breastfeeding (I believe she did this as a way to ensure she would have custody). In the morning, my wife realized the baby wasn't there and came over to my house. By this time, the baby was crying so hard, and hadn't eaten for almost half a day and I didn't want to starve her so I let my wife take her back.

First she said she was gonna charge me with kidnapping. But I told her she couldn't because it's my child too. So I didn't hear from her for a day, then she told me she took the baby to the doctor to have something on file and she's gonna charge me with neglect because I didn't feed the baby in my care.

Can I be charged with neglect or any other criminal charges for this instance? Does it help my case that I was actively trying to feed the baby?