There is a court order for her belongings to be exchanged to her, within 30 days. The order did not say that she could come here, unannounced with her family and take the items. During the provisional exchange, here at the house, 5 officers and a detective had to respond. She was repeatedly warned by these officers to get her belongings and get going. At one point the judge was called and the officers were told to physically remove her from this house. This is what we are dealing with. My question isn't about giving this lady her belongings, which we will do at a set time and place, according to the judge's order. My question is what are my rights, regarding this restraining order, and her coming to my home? I was not allowed to stand in my own driveway, or yard, to protect my home because she came here. She is allegedly afraid of me, but can come to my home and harass me? I have no recourse?