It wasn't my choice to create this distance, my husband is in the Army, the Army made this choice for us. I pay for everything already...if he won't pay to come see him once a month when its his fault he is gone why should I have to. I'm still living in the same town and I can count on one hand the amount of times he has excersised his visits since March. So instead I should just lived seprately from my husband who could be deployed again and possible die for his country...and the only time that he had to spend with his family he couldn't because my ex won't split the cost of travel....seriously.

