Exactly WHY were you "not allowed" to talk to your wife for this time period...and why was she forced into a shelter if married to you at the time? Why wasn't she living with you?
Not even remotely close. People don't file rape cases with police for LOTS of reasons - even when raped by total strangers. Doesn't have anything to do with the sex being consentual or not.
Other than your wife hating your guts, and claiming that you forcing the issue against her will is WAY emotionally abusive...not really. Your report can result in nothing if the victim isn't willing to cooperate. She's the victim. The ball is completely in HER court as far as what to do or not to do about filing a report or pursuing a case.Is there any harm that could come to me if I notified police that my wife said she was raped?
Rape is a crime. If she's saying there were instances of non-consentual sex, it falls under criminal law. Accountability for rape will only come via the CJ system if that's what the victim wants. You don't get damages for custody matter problems between your wife and the ex. When you choose to intertwine your life with people who have children from previous relationships, that is baggage that you sign up for.And,
** Is there any law in Oregon, that could be 'similar' to the old alienation of affection law? -- Is there any law in Oregon to hold 'ex-lover' accountable for this alleged rape along with past court filings against my wife regarding custody matters between them, that include slanderous accusations of assault against my wife?
The husbandly thing to do.That caused 'me' to hire attorneys for my wife
Not defending her or protecting yourself was also an option. Probably not the BEST option, but an option nonetheless.to - in essence to, A. defend her, and B. protect me?...
If there is justification, she can ask the court to order the opposing party to cover legal expenses. But custody issues that go before the court are never cheap. From what you've described, you wife had some major issues going on, so it makes perfect sense that the other parent would challenge if such an environment is best for the child and want to address a potential change in custody.This person is directly responsible for upwards of $15,000.00 in legal bills to defend my wife / family (and thereby protecting myself) not to mention physical and emotional damage to me, my wife, and our marriage...

