My sincere and humble thanks for your articulate and thoughtful replies.
Outside of my own unfortunate circumstances, this is a fascinating area of the law.
I have 4 more questions, if you will oblige me.
•What is the legal difference between a man surreptitiously photographing another man's "backside" vs. a man surreptitiously photographing a woman's backside?
•What is the difference between a restraining order and an injunction?
•If I want to try to file a TRO or get an injunction, how could I do this without having to pay a lawyer? I have friends in CA who could help me with the filing or I could do it in person the next time I am in CA.
•I am assuming I would apply in the county in which I would likely have proximity to the "stalker".

